Will all good things really come to those who wait?

Many of us believe in signs, timing, and divine order — in synchronicity that nudges us, in moments that feel meant to be. Trusting in something greater — whether you call it God, the Universe, or Life — is part of how I live, coach, and grow. My years of studying personal development, spiritual practices, and positive psychology have shaped a deep belief that life unfolds with wisdom and purpose.

But trusting life doesn’t mean doing nothing. Sometimes, the most spiritual act is not waiting but choosing.

In this article, I want to challenge a common but risky misinterpretation: the belief that waiting and trusting means doing nothing. Let’s talk about action, and what happens when we ignore the signs that it’s time to make a change.

In many conversations with clients, students, and colleagues, I’ve seen a pattern. People often use words like “faith,” “timing,” or “destiny” to avoid discomfort. They stay in their comfort zone, hoping that things will work out on their own.

It reminds me of the old joke: A man prays for years to win the lottery. Finally, a voice from above says, “You should at least buy a ticket!”

Avoidance dressed in spiritual language is still avoidance. Telling yourself “it’s not time yet” or “if it’s meant to be, it will be” can lead to years of waiting, hoping, and wondering why nothing changes. That’s not divine timing — it’s self-deception.

Common Red Flags in How We Talk

So, let’s be honest. Let’s listen to how we talk. Because the way we speak often reveals the way we act.

If you catch yourself saying things like:

• “It’s gonna work.”
• “It’ll all come together.”
• “Everything will sort itself out.”

Pause and ask yourself: Is this trust, or avoidance?

Yes, sometimes we do need to wait or hold still. But in many cases, passively hoping that things will work out is not a plan — it’s a delay.

Now let’s look at how people often talk about major life decisions:

“If it’s fate…”
This phrase often signals a desire to avoid analyzing or acting. People say it when they want to believe that good things will simply appear — a house, a partner, a new job — as if the Universe offers home delivery with no effort required.

Years ago, long before I completed my 100-hour certification in personal and family budgeting and began formally working with clients on Prosperity Coaching, I met a couple at a spiritual seminar. They told me they didn’t feel the need to save for a home. At first, I admired their simplicity. But then she added, “If we’re destined to have an apartment, it will somehow become.”

I remember that conversation clearly. They spoke as if the home would appear when the time was right. But buying a house requires planning, a down payment, and action. Are we really expecting the Universe to handle the mortgage paperwork and drop the keys in our lap?

“If I’m meant to work there…”
I hear this a lot from clients during career coaching and interview preparation.
They’ll say things like:
“They’ll like my resume just as it is.”
“I don’t need special interview prep. If I’m meant to work there, things will work out naturally.”

Over the years, I’ve worked with many clients navigating Career transitions, job applications, and professional decision-making. This belief in destiny often comes up — but here’s the truth: There are thousands of well-written resumes out there. Many candidates are qualified. Yet not all get the call.

Maybe your resume got noticed. Maybe it rose to the top of the pile. That’s already a gift — a moment of support from the Universe.
This is the opportunity. Now it’s your turn to show you recognize it. The best way to express gratitude for divine support is to meet it with your own effort. Prepare for the interview. Learn what to say, how to present yourself, and how to show up fully.
A good opportunity is a collaboration. The Universe might open the door — but you still have to walk through it.

As Benjamin Franklin wrote, “Diligence is the mother of good luck.”

“If we’re meant to be together…”

Some clients tell me at the beginning of our coaching work on Relationship preferences:

‘If it’s meant to be, they’ll just get me — no explanation needed.’”

But how can someone know the real you if you’re hiding your thoughts or sending mixed signals? Silence and avoidance will only create confusion.

We set ourselves up for disappointment when we expect someone to magically know what we want. Real connection takes time. It’s built on words, questions, curiosity, and conscious effort.

You are a unique and beautiful soul. You don’t need to play games or wear a mask. You need to show up as yourself and invite connection from a place of truth.

The Comfort Zone Disguised as Faith

We often tell ourselves spiritual stories to avoid uncomfortable action. But true belief in divine timing doesn’t mean staying passive. It means co-creating with life.

“Heaven helps those who help themselves.”

We act, we try, we take risks — and then we trust. Trusting life means listening and responding. It means moving when your inner wisdom whispers. It means making the call, having the conversation, showing up with care.

This is not abandoning faith — this is living it.

As Louise Hay taught, when we change our thinking, we begin to change our life. Shifting from passive waiting to active, conscious decision-making — and being grateful for the opportunities life gives us to grow and manifest — is one of the most loving things we can do for ourselves.

Self-Reflection for Real Change

Growth begins with honesty. Progress begins with a single step. Your future starts not when you wait, but when you choose to act.

Take a moment to ask yourself — and don’t just think about it. Write your answers down:

• Am I postponing something I want to improve in my life?
• Have I been labeling fear or hesitation as “timing” or “destiny”?
• What small first step can I take toward something that truly matters to me?
• What kind of research can I do? Whom can I reach out to?
• Can I create a simple weekly plan? If yes, write it and add it to your schedule.

And if you’re still not sure where to begin — that’s completely okay. You don’t have to do it alone. Many of my clients come to me without knowing exactly which part of their life needs to shift. Well discover it together.

You don’t need all the answers to start. You only need the willingness to move forward.

Ready to Take That Step?

If you’re tired of circling in indecision and want clarity, confidence, and direction, I invite you to explore my coaching programs. I work with people navigating career questions, personal transitions, spiritual crossroads, and more. And even if you’re not sure what area of your life needs attention, we can explore that together.

You don’t need to be ready. You just need to begin. Clarity comes from movement — so let’s get started.

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